The Gift of Acabar is a book by Og Mandino published in 1978. It’s a very short book, only 114 pages and a fast read. Yesterday I re-read it on the plane. Here are my notes and takeaways.
Every human has one very special power: the power of choice.
Although there have been millions of people, through the centuries, who have used their power wisely, the majority choose to spend so much of their precious allotment of life feeling sorry for themselves.
We all fall victim to this mindset, but it does not serve us. If you wish to change, you must choose to do the work to change. Change comes from within.
Along with the power of choice there is another very special gift: the spark of life. With this gift comes an opportunity – another choice – to apply your own special talents, whatever they may be, to leave this world a better place than you found it. This is the true meaning of life. Billions of humans have failed in this and wasted their lives. And this is our choice that we make on a daily basis – to fulfill our destiny or waste our lives. The only thing we have to do to fulfill our destiny is use the talent the universe gave us to make this a better world.
That’s it. Simple. Use the gifts you have to bring more light into the world. It doesn’t have to be a big light, you don’t have to be famous or wealthy or a genius. All that is asked is that you use whatever gifts you have to the best of your ability. If your skill is with a hammer, build! If you have a knack with a hoe, plant! If you are happy on the water, fish! If a pen does your bidding, write!
Adversity is not a curse – it is a blessing. To struggle is the only certain way for anyone to achieve their full potential. The brightest stars are those who have been tested in the fires of tribulation.
We live in a world that is filled with people making excuses for their failure because it is always easier to quit than to keep trying. Do not walk that path of despair.
Instead, choose to fulfill your destiny: use your gifts persistently, never stop trying, keep pushing forward whatever the adversity, and work to make the world a better place.
This reading sparked a follow-up thought in me:
When I see people – especially kids – plugged into their phones and screens, I am saddened because they are not fulfilling their true potential, they are not making the world a better place; instead they are wasting their lives; wasting their spark. I am not immune to this, I do the same thing to unplug and unwind and sometimes I fall into the trap and lose my way. When we can’t think of anything else to do, when we lose track of our purpose, then we have squandered our greatest gift – the spark of life.