I recently completed a 6-week virtual story skills workshop from the Akimbo team. It was an excellent, if demanding, experience. I signed up because I wanted to tell better stories in my work life. Along the way I discovered I also wanted to see if I could learn to write better song lyrics. I had the opportunity to learn and practice proven techniques for creating stories that matter. I received a lot of helpful feedback and gave feedback to others who were working at their own skills. Perhaps the most fun was getting exposure to so many examples of excellent stories that are out in the world. What I learned is this: any of us can become good storytellers. Even me. I don’t think it is a natural state for me, but with practice I can get better.
The most unexpected take-away came near the end of the workshop. We were asked to watch a TED talk from someone named Matthew Dicks; his talk is called Homework for Life. It’s an entertaining talk and worth watching. His “homework” for writing great stories is to take 5 minutes at the end of every day and write down the most memorable or impactful moment of the day. He made a habit of this for years, and before long he had an endless stockpile of ideas for stories, because he realized most great stories are built around small yet poignant moments.
What I loved best about the TED talk is his habit had the unexpected side effect of slowing down life. Taking those 5 minutes to remember some moment each day (usually they were good moments, sometimes they were not) created space to appreciate and relish what was happening in life, rather than just passing through. Another unexpected benefit is the act of recording an event from today tends to trigger memories of other episodes from our life, so we get to reconnect with moments we might otherwise have forgotten or lost track of.
I’ve tried doing this myself – taking five minutes at bedtime to write down a moment from the day. So far my track record isn’t great but I do have about 4-5 ideas captured on paper. I’ll keep going and see what happens.