For years I encouraged my 12-year daughter to read the Harry Potter stories. They were filled with story elements she loves: dragons, magic, power struggles, mystery, awkward teen romance, crazy characters, and more. She resisted, I think mainly because the recommendation came from Continue reading “Let Go”
The Power To Choose
Here I am in traffic, on my way to an appointment, and the car in front of me is driving slowly.
In this moment can I remember that:
– I am one person among billions, dwelling on a small planet that is hurling through an immense expanse of space?
Act Accordingly
We are – every person on the planet – more powerful than we think we are. Act accordingly.
Practice When It Doesn’t Matter
If I haven’t interviewed for a new job in many years, best to apply to some jobs I’m not really interested in. Get some practice answering questions by phone and in person. Spend time refining my responses and fine-tuning the questions I’ll ask during the interview. Gain clarity regarding my Continue reading “Practice When It Doesn’t Matter”
Asking For Help
Why is it so hard to ask for help?
Is it that I’m admitting I can’t do this by myself? Is there a concern I may appear incapable or incompetent? Am I exposing inadequacies? These may Continue reading “Asking For Help”
Hay Irthday
My one and only Dr. Seuss attempt.
Hay Irthday but without a P or a B
Hay Irthday but without a P or a B
Today is your day and I hope it will be
Hay Irthday but without a P or a B
The Value of Constant Preparation
I met another musician at a wedding several years ago who shared a perspective that has been formative for me not just as a musician but also as a leader, a father, and a friend.
He said once you’ve taken your place on stage with instrument or Continue reading “The Value of Constant Preparation”
Focus on the 90
Volunteering at one of the Lighten Up Boulder events. Standing on the corner of a busy intersection during rush hour. Giving away free bike and pedestrian lights to anyone passing by, no strings attached! Just free lights to promote safety.
30% of the people who stopped came right up and asked what was going on. Continue reading “Focus on the 90”
Coaching
Pay Attention
I live in Boulder, Colorado and I love to run on the open space trails. Having done so for the past 19 years, I thought I knew every major trail, minor trail, and connector link in the system. I was wrong.
This summer I had the pleasure of participating in the Walk2Connect Boulder Walk 360Â walking tour around Boulder. I completed one leg Continue reading “Pay Attention”
Windows Logo + L
What happens when someone from your organization drops in at your desk? Do you “multitask” by half-listening to their words while also looking at your computer screen? We’re all busy and it’s easy to fall into this trap.
When we “multitask” we send a not-so-subliminal message Continue reading “Windows Logo + L”
Affirmations for the Introvert Leader
I will have a good time.
Attitude is EVERYTHING.
If it’s not what I want, don’t say it.
